BUG/MEDIUM: servers: Use a refcount for port_range and free it properly

BUG/MEDIUM: servers: Use a refcount for port_range and free it properly

port_range was never freed. That used not to be a problem, but now that
we can dynamically add and remove servers, it becomes one, as that leads
to a memory leak each time a server with a "source" directive is destroyed.
However, just adding a free() is not enough. We have to add a refcount,
because the server is not the only one with a reference to it. We may
also have one in fdinfo, so that we know which port to release when we
finally close the fd.
So add a refcount, and make sure to call port_range_release() when a
server is destroyed.

This should be backported up to 3.0.